When her sister says, "what did you hear? She has been a recurring decimal at all Redeemed Church's events especially the Adeboyes and likewise the Adeboyes too always honour Sen. Remi Tinubu at her events. And #2. At times, we get jealous and feel insecure for wrong reasons. DEAR DANCING FOOL: Your feelings are your feelings. I feel like avoiding his family altogether now, he can deal with them on his own. Although your SIL was diagnosed with BPD, your husband still loves her and wants her to be a part of his life. You might feel that your husband loves his sister more than you because he doesnt take you on dates. We have a 15-year-old grandson from his previous marriage who lives with his mom and who visits his dad every other weekend. My husband said, "Yes. Instead, it was passed around and everyone laughed and made fun of me. By message or in person, he's a closed book. I just wish they could acknowledge my existence haha. All of us have different issues that we face with our spouses and are sometimes unable to find a solution. 6. I mean I wrestle with my little brother sometimes but that's not the same as what you're saying LMAO. However, always remember that you are unique. -- WONDERING IN THE SOUTH, DEAR WONDERING: I dont think there is anything to be worried about. Make that reason more meaningful. Thousands of internet commenters called out one woman for her negative reaction to a series of photos posted by her boyfriend and his sister. If you two vibe well together, such problems wont occur. I was shown the tape later at a family gathering. She said that my only competition with Jack was Melinda. In such cases, make use of sarcasm. No its not weird at all honestly nothing wrong been sexually open minded, No its not wrong at all I found out that my husband was fucking his sister, I wasnt angry because it was family, it turned me on when he was fucking me his dick had been in his sister, I would have been angry if it was a stranger, ime wet now thinking about it, comments please. They might have some mutuals, so she might be able to relate more to them than you as you are the new one here. reader, BunnyTee+, writes (3 May 2010): A Watch that woman! Try new things and make them more enjoyable. My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. So, I feel like doing just that. Harriette Cole: I don't want the neighbor's kids at my house, Ask Amy: I feel guilty for not speaking up about my co-worker's activities, Ask Amy: I'm your cabin housekeeper, and you apparently have no idea what I do, Dear Abby: My wife said she doesn't like it, but it's part of my life. The fact that a 14yr old is still doing this is weird as heck to me and your boyfriend should have put a stop to it at some point. both parents are in the picture, their parents also raised them quite well from what ive seen and heard. Roadshow: Is defacing license plates to fool toll camera readers on the rise in Bay Area? Please help. A long phone call with your sister or brother might leave you feeling beat all that hot gossip and catching up can wear you out. Lol imagine if they're always like that and you moved out together and his sister still comes over to cuddle up to him. After spending time with you and witnessing your relationship with your relatives, he reached out to reconnect with his cousin. You want one thing and he doesn't. We will not only find out ways why you are feeling this way but also figure out solutions to fix it at once! Are you willing to put up with him always choosing her over you? Uhm, are you sure its his sister?!? Honestly, Im rationalizing the reason he pushes you away from him is that it could because she may feel a certain type of way, or he may feel a way about it. Hell, Ill be damned if Im in a relationship with someone, and married to them, and they are always choosing their sibling over me. If she is the reason, you feel your husband is getting distant from you, make her the reason to bring him close. i completely agree, and in terms of the context, i think its just a strange relationship. he plans everything around her. The narcissistic mother is trying to cure her problems within herself by hanging onto and expecting emotional things from her adult son. You overthink and over assume things in the process. Pamper him with gifts. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA . I find the stigma and the misconceptions surrounding my diagnosis quite hurtful. Ranma 1/2. She had her feet in his lap, and they were talking softly. My little sister and I have been very close and we have our own inner jokes. Im sure she wouldnt be divorcing her husband if the marriage had been a bed of roses, and she may need private time with her brother to help her detoxify. Please dont allow him to put you in this awkward spot. If you are the only child of your parents, you might not have experienced sibling relationships this closely before. This might give hints to her and try to work on her habit. If you take her responsibility, your husband will get more time to spend with you. It happened on a regular basis. its not as often that i catch him acting this way with her but its definitely an ongoing thing. So, I got upset because I think I realized that he will never be the husband I need him to be because I feel he doesnt contribute to our marriage. female She should not disclose what she overheard when questioning her sister. I said nothing and dont intend to, but I cant get it out of my mind. About. Nobody wants to be made fun of. Your email address will not be published. He gets so irritated that you begin to wonder if you changed overnight. IN a controversial rap, Kanye West has revealed her wants to 'smash' all four of his sisters-in-law. Hoping for some explanation. He is your husband; you got into this marriage because you love and care for each other. When I tried talking to my husband about it, he got offended. Im certain they told one another that no matter what happens or whats going on that they will never let anyone come into their lives and replace the other. I said nothing and dont intend to, but I cant get it out of my mind. Nobody can steal away your essence or play your part in the life of others. As time went on, I noticed that my sister (and her husband and kids) still stayed pretty close to my ex. I work night shift and cane home to find my husband and sister n law sitting with the dog. He Acts Better Than Everyone Else. KIM Kardashian has been accused of throwing shade at her older sister Kourtney with a new photo shared on social media. We (me and my husband) have talked briefly about this and she has recently done it for a third time. She is his voice of reason, and go to person for times of trouble. We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. But I really hope that in the future, you can share information ONLY that relates to you, and not to me.. Please make sure you read our rules here. If you are concerned that your grandson will see something shocking, please know that he can find whatever he is curious about on his computer or cellphone. If she wanted to lie to you she would say that he had sex with a random girl and cheated on you. Staring at his sisters boobs is gross, yes. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! You both will get relaxing time to spend together. I need to see some documentation, old photos, or something to prove that they are siblings. Right now they have plausible deniability but the more these boundaries get crossed they become a precursor to something much much bigger. 2. He doesnt want to save it. Touch. But you have two choices: The first is to continue to stew about it. (What?!). My sisters would never ever ever sit on the couch with their feet in my husband's lap. It means that she struggles with mood regulation, identity issues, and interpersonal relationships. I don't have a brother so I don't know if this is normal. Also, all examples involving people or clients are hypothetical amalgams, not actual people. We both really like to win and when we disagree it can be very difficult to resolve. If you purchase a product or register for an account through one of the links on our site, we may receive compensation. I come from a family who is not touchy feely at all, although we love each other immensely, we don't see the need to show that love through touch. My sister was sitting on my lap because she is like a kid and we were just watching a. movie. It cant be compared. If he doesnt want to take you up on your offer, then its time to consult a lawyer, and figure out how you want to handle child support, and custody. Hell, the next time he does it just reach down and grab his d**k and look her in her face and yell, This is mine! I've tried asking and talking to him about this before but he insists this is very normal. In such cases, try to control your husbands finances. Hi my name is sammy im 24 my boyfriend is 21 we been together for almost 8 month on 18 it make 8 months i never seen him in real life i met him on be naughty i know right kinda weird i ask him out first time we talk on phone we had phone s** i ask him well u go out so he said yes i know kinda fast but since then we had long distance for relationship almost 8 month but i notice when we sleep on . He knows I dont like dogs in the house. I suggest that you speak to him yet again about your desires for him to maintain boundaries with his sister, and your reasons why you find this important. Your Turn: "I Asked If He Was Sleeping With His Sister. Press J to jump to the feed. The second is to join in the laughter, admit you dont dance like a gazelle few people do and let it go. The problem is my boyfriend's relationship with his only sibling, a sister. And, vise versa he is those things for her. I heard you talking on the couch'. Make him known that you were expecting something from your husband too. Youve done all you could. Now just to clarify, Melinda was 21 years old at the time. DEAR ABBY: I recently attended a wedding and was videotaped while I was dancing. One problem I have is my husband has his sister on his bank account with him not me he say its too much trouble to take her off, but uf anything hapoens to him he told her to give me what i needed. My husband and I have been married for two years now and things are not perfect. Welcome to r/relationship_advice. He doesn't miss you when you're gone, and he's indifferent to your absence. So I decided to set my boundaries and not bo. My husband would send her the pictures of us visiting various places and asks her to show it to his parents, but she never does that. Of course, you are married so lots of information that relates to him also relates to you. The 28-year-old woman . Help her out in her chores and earn her trust. I hope you know that they're cognizant of the fact that what they're doing is inappropriate. This is not an all-inclusive list. You will ALWAYS be in a threesome: you, him, and the family member. We're both type A personalities with six-figure jobs and very big egos. Quickly. Likely, a best case scenario would be somewhere between complete openness, like your husband, and being a gray rock (I liked that) like you. It was embarrassing and hurtful. That might make you feel amazed and uneasy at the same time. Don't have an account? They share the same bed. Miss Manners: I shouldn't call because the phone scares people? My husband and younger sister have always . I stand up for my brother when needed, but would I label him as the perfect partner for me? He makes disrespectful comments to your face and behind your back. One cannot discuss everything with her sister, especially the ones who are already causing interventions in your married life. It may be the reason he is spending time with her. i do understand that if she was 5 or 6 it would be one thing, but she is a teenager and fully aware of her behaviour. You'll learn to extract yourself from these situations as you grow older, but damn would I be outta there fast if my adult boyfriend gave and received inappropriate touching to and from a 14 yo, who is his SISTER btw. My wife found it disgusting and yelled at me for our behavior. One person even called it creepy. I planned on going to my sister's house for Thanksgiving dinner as I had always done before. Be candid with him. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Here you'll find all collections you've created before. I don't know how to bring this up with my in-laws. He won't talk about his feelings or show me any affection, so I'm guessing he doesn't love me. The "parent" partner typically nags, prods, controls, dictates, scolds, and makes most of the decisions. Can you come up with an estimation? My Ex-Husband And I Were Good Friends But Bad Spouses. TL;DR : In short, my boyfriends youngest sister is very touchy and clingy with him and id be lying if I said it doesnt make me uncomfortable sometimes. Youre going to have to pull it together emotionally and mentally. She's the author of Codependency for Dummies,, How to Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive & Set Limits and 10 Steps to Self-Esteem. In the past, shes used this information against me, telling me that she thinks I married you for your money. Am I? im going to mention this to him and update after we talk! He and his sister have a bizarre and unusual relationship, and they both need serious help. This is not an all-inclusive list. If you are on her good list, she will be nice to you and influence your husbands love for you. Do you want to have to fight for your husbands affection and love? Gen. Emmmmm its made me hard too reading your opinion.. so hot ? Terrance Dean. Your email address will not be published. Now, all that needs to be done is make it more special. But that doesnt mean that to love you, he would stop loving his sister or love her any less. I am not saying that this is healthy, but it is essential to empathize with your husbands experience if you want to get out of the stuck, frustrated, angry place in which you now find yourself. My husband's sister got married a year before we did, but she always visited our place once every three days and stayed over till the weekend. My Husband And His Sister. Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? I am certain you will fail. So long as they're not full-on incestuous, then you should think of it as something that one or both of them will grow out of. She never seemed to go out with her own friends. What should I do? female If you feel your husband loves his sister more than he loves you, think of your love for your siblings. Login first So, he cant show you any affection in front of her? Plan a vacation or a staycation with your husband. If you have any questions, please send us a modmail. Best of luck, and if you want some reading on BPD, a good book isLoving Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder (dont worry, Im not telling you to love her, but its a helpful book about dealing with those with BPD). Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. Im just asking. It might be so because she is a loner or an introvert and doesnt have a friend circle. Brother- Sister situation. All of these will be removed and locked. Tell him beforehand that that day you will spend away from home together. Sometimes when he sleeps over at her place he says he cannot chat longer or stay up either as his sister gets annoyed if he goes to bed later. Involve her in little things that you do. These weird incest stories are coming back to this sub? Loving is what makes us human. However, it means that he is a very protective brother. This might be so because your personal life involves him and you are directly related to him. She is a woman too. I got married 3 months ago. She has taken on the role of his mother, and may feel the need to be protective of him, which comes across as overbearing, overprotective, and incestuous. female One of the first "big" holidays after my divorce was Thanksgiving. I get so triggered by the whole feet in lap thing because thats how I found out my ex was cheating on me! Real life isnt the Brady Bunch. But you have two choices: The first is to continue to stew about it. One cannot help loving them if one has known them for sometime. In such situations, its better to avoid arguments. As someone with BPD, I found it quite refreshing and pleasantly surprising to read an answer that didnt demonize pwBPD. We had agreed that I would have the kids. If he cant respect and honor you in front of her, then he will never respect and honor you. I respect my brother. I couldn't imagine them doing those things now that they're 13/14. . male And everything seemed to go wellbut there was something in my head that saidif something is too good to be true..it usually is.I was right. Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? your husband will tell you everything you need to know either with his silence or his honesty. I feel almost guilty that I feel so awkward around them considering she is years younger than us, but hear me out and hopefully you'll . All rights reserved (About Us). She's helped individuals and couples for over 25 years and is an expert on relationships, codependency, and addiction. She said that 'he wasn't for her' but didn't elaborate on the 'why'. 1. Yet, he doesnt acknowledge, or see anything wrong with their relationship. Im throwing up the deuces, and Im taking your a** for everything. Give him some time to realize his role better. We have two boys, ages 2 years and 7 months. 8. Do You Still Miss Your Ex Even After Getting Married? DEAR ABBY: I recently attended a wedding and was videotaped while I was dancing. ", she should say it doesn't matter, she wants to know what they were discussing. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. He just told me that he has had enough and to leave. He gets easily offended. Required fields are marked *. Nobody wants to be made fun of. It wasnt long before I was then introduced to his sister, Melinda.*. female And I do know that its not gonna change and Im never gonna say anything. Am i reading too far into this or is this weird? Im also very worried about how my kids will deal with this. He was intelligent and good looking. Either your husband has been harbouring love for your sister and he's devastated she's having a baby with someone else. You hold a different place in his life. Originally Published: Feb. 6, 2018. Legal troubles. Perhaps she had a bad day? You feel that your husband loves his sister more than you because he brings her up in every conversation. She is really only thinking of her own needs and not the needs of her son or her daughter-in-law for that matter. My husband and sister in law on the other hand do. At the end of the conversation she said something that stuck in my mind. One night we went to a concert and we came back to his place. This time, though, come from a place of understanding. male This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules. What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, or situations involving minors and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). My sister - n -law has a dog that she keeps in the house. One of his ex girlfriends came and spoke to me. 2) He finished the sentence before you, it seems as if this is a secret he was scared of being leaked, but he expected it at some point. 1. It doesnt mean the same in this particular case. Plan pregnancy. For them it was completely the norm to sleepsame bed sometimes directly next to each other. Im not a great dancer, and I looked silly, so I asked that the video be deleted. -- DANCING FOOL IN OHIO. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. But a 14yo and her 18yo brother? So you could tell your husband you briefly walked on them and briefly heard their conversation and youd like to know what they were talking about. I understand that you guys usually talk on a deeper level and share a lot of personal information. reader, Laura1318+, writes (28 April 2010): A Plan out a day of the week for the two of you. 12. or situations/content involving minors. Theresnever a time that we go anywhere without her. You feel that your husband loves his sister more than you because he is always too protective of her. Should this be a problem for us (we are both 70), or should we not be concerned? Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. This can annoy you as you have to put selfies alone. Answer (1 of 28): Yes. Let no man come between and that includes his sister. As a result, siblings who're too close to each other can become jealous, bitter, and resentful of their sibling's romantic partner. A woman has been left heartbroken after her husband confessed his love for her sister - while she is six months pregnant with his child. Your email address will not be published. He just told me that he has had enough and to leave. male This means that it may be time to take a more in-depth look at your own feelings about your SIL and why exactly she triggers you so much. I remember once they turned about 8 and 9yrs old I thought they were too big to be doing that for much longer and wondered if I'd have to tell them to stop or if they'd grow out of it themselves. He wont talk about his feelings or show me any affection, so Im guessing he doesnt love me. He's trying to make you jealous and you absolutely need to be worried because you have to ask him why he's doing this. Ask him to help you out in creating a comfort zone. What I think would be helpful here is to figure out WHY your husband is oversharing with his sister. Ive been married to my husband for 4 and a half years, and we have to kids. A reader asks: My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties. 29 Votes But, whats more disturbing is that he pushes you away from him when she enters the room. female He always tries to support her and preplan things for her. Either your husband has been harbouring love for your sister and he's devastated she's having a baby with someone else. I have seen that my sister-in-law is a bit weird. Switch to the light mode that's kinder on your eyes at day time. You have your importance in his life, and she has hers. I was tired so after dinner I decided to lay down. Im surprised that he got married, and was able to have a family. reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): A It is in no way discounts your bearing. He probably goes around telling everyone about all of his "great" accomplishments. This woman sounds like the type who will try to have your children sucking on her tit trying to breast feed them, and cutting you out of the pictures of their photo album and replacing her face with yours. My Husband Overshares With His Sister. My sister in law is diagnosed with BPD. When I told my husband I thought it was a weird relationship, he yelled at me. I walked out of the room and saw my sister and husband on the couch. Be a responsible sister-in-law. I am not jealous, I know what jealousy feels like, this is genuine discomfort and confusion. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. 7 Comments. or situations/content involving minors. 7) The words just aren't flowing. This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. Ask your husband if he wants to seek counseling, therapy, or a marriage counselor to get to the root and issue of his relationship with his sister, and how it is affecting your marriage. So, by saying this you are not sounding offensive. Hello! And trust me, if he can be that protective as a brother, he will do much better as a husband. I spoke to them and went into the house to get dressed for the funeral. Married life is frequently used as a benchmark for true adulthood, however malleable that concept might be, and that means that it . Plan with him to take your relationship to the next level. It made my stomach sink and when confronted, he admitted everything. exactly what im thinking. Maam, youre better than me because I would have snatched her up and got her right together! If your boyfriend's allegiance t. The way to a mans heart is through his stomach. It can change the scheme of things. Whenever the two of you go out for dinners, he never fails to extend an invitation to her. Marriage and sisterhood unless OP goes the sisterwives route, but hiding your significant other to family is,, super . 10. reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): A female Yes, him having his sister sit with him at the hospital but making you wait outside is upsetting. This thread has been locked by the moderators of r/relationship_advice. He is also at fault many times, but I try to understand that they have no parents and their family abandoned them. Brother- Sister situationMy boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because-1. I'd definitely file this as weird. It belongs to me. LMBAO! Make sure your husband is prepared for this. The last thing you need to be thinking about in a relationship is how weird the boundaries are between your bf and his sister. That created a lot of anxiety and stress issues for me. Apart from the fact that she is now a pastor, she shares a close mother-sister relationship with the Adeboyes especially Mummy GO, Pastor Foluke Adeboye. The hell!!??!! It was embarrassing and hurtful. But, most of the time I ignore it because I feel its childish and I respect my husband too much, but he turns a blind eye. Sign-up for #YIC Newsletter. If I say anything about it, he jumps all over me, defending her. yes exactly my thought process!! But because she's a doctor with three kids and you're a single teacher, your dad loves to try to pit the two of you against each other. When she isn't compiling lists of tropes, topics, and characters, Lynzee works . We recently found out that they have purchased a second home very close to our son. Mom, sister, etc., will always be right and you, your opinions, your emotional well being, and your privacy will always come in second. Something isnt right with this relationship, and I agree that they are a little too close for comfort. Ask Amy: Can I fist-bump people without telling them why? Did I think it was weird her staring at us? Get confessions in your inbox. ill update after we talk! For coaching with Dr. Whiten, go here. Generosity of spirit here may be the best option. Now, this part is usually the obvious part of a change in attitude. You and your older sister are two completely different people. I only saw him one more time after that. Give it a try, you can unsubscribe anytime. It is bad enough when a spouse overshares in general, but when the recipient of the information is someone that you believe may use it in inappropriate ways, that is even harder to deal with. 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